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This is something I've been meaning to post, given a recent resurgence of bickering that amounts to pedantry. Specifically, pedantry over exactly what a sandbox really is, as it pertains to roleplaying.
Sheesh. Here we go again.
I don't know why some of our fellow game geeks seek to make our wonderful 
pass-time an arena for nasty argument! There are those that 
needlessly complicate things, aren't there?! 
Come now, folks. We all 
know, deep down, that a sandbox is a state of mind, a type of play, that unfolds 
organically between GM and his/her players if they are in that magical 
roleplaying "zone" we've all experienced at some point. Look, it's an 
interaction of the GM's prep and his ability to think on the fly when players 
inevitably go in their own direction. For some groups it's a rare thing, for 
others it happens most of the time. It depends on the delicate interplay of the 
unique individuals at any particular table at any time out there in 
gamerland.
A good GM will give players options/plot 
hooks/choices/paths/ whatever you want to call them. A good GM will be open to 
the unexpected directions that players will take when they choose which hooks to 
follow. A good GM can make any module into a sandbox.
Good players will 
trust their GM, if that GM is doing right by them and giving them lots of 
options to choose from. Good players will give them GM benefit of the doubt when 
it comes to the hard work of GMing. 
If things aren't working out in a 
group, and the sandbox style you love suffers, then find another group, right? 
Sometimes this is easier said than done, but given perseverance, roleplaying 
hope springs eternal.
Come on, people, this is all pretty much self 
evident and, with decades of roleplaying experience under our belts, it's become 
a sort of RPG common sense. For most of us, at least. But there are those that, 
for some reason, just like to argue for the sake of argument. I pity them. I truly do.
 
 










